The Misuse of Independence and Freedom

The Misuse of Independence and Freedom

Happy July 4th everybody. When I was a kid this was by far my favorite holiday for a few reasons: It is in the middle of the summer and summer is my favorite time of year We always had family and friends over to celebrate and I love a good party It meant I got to blow...
The Necessity of Sacrifice

The Necessity of Sacrifice

As another busy week comes to an end I am grateful for the fact that a new client has entrusted me with their insight needs.  This week I was fortunate enough to conduct 12 ethnographies; a fancy word for research that is part observational and part Q&A conducted...
Arthur Verses – Gone but Not Forgotten

Arthur Verses – Gone but Not Forgotten

Today we say our final goodbye to a very special family member, Arthur Verses. I’ll explain the relationship so you understand; my wife Nicole has a brother named Pete. Pete Married Karen. Karen’s mother Joann married Arthur Verses. In total, Arthur had...
Paul Simon and an Old Pair of Nike’s

Paul Simon and an Old Pair of Nike’s

What do an old pair of Nike sneakers, Paul Simon, The Advocate and the State Theatre have in common? My father, Don Carlon. When I was growing up, my father taught me lessons of sacrifice, generosity and frugality through the example he set for me and my brothers and...
The G Word

The G Word

It is very hard for me to believe that my kids will be graduating from grammar school next week.  Actually, the school does not refer to it as graduation; they refer to it as “moving up.” G, P, and M are going to middle school and I am already seeing signs...
What Baba O’Riley taught me about myself

What Baba O’Riley taught me about myself

Last night I was coming home from “Date Night” with my wife and The Who’s Baba O’Riley came on the radio. Its hard not to love that song; from the keyboard intro to Pete Townshend’s repetition of the D, A, and G chords, it is a song that is the embodiment of a perfect...
A Mother’s Day Reflection

A Mother’s Day Reflection

Our triplets were born 9 weeks early in 2002; they weren’t due until June but decided to make an appearance in mid April. They struggled at first but eventually thrived and all came home from the hospital on Mother’s Day 2002. Well, to be fair, Maggie...
Handle With Care

Handle With Care

On my flight out to Arkansas this morning I listened to one of my favorite songs, Handle With Care, by the Traveling Wilburys. The refrain goes as follows: “I’m so tired of being lonely I still have some love to give Won’t you show me that you really care?”...
Self Absorption

Self Absorption

As many of you know, I interview people for a living. It’s not a bad gig really – I get to travel, listen to interesting stories, and consult with my clients on what it all means.  To quote my father, “You get paid for that?”  Yes, I do dad....