Everyday Jacob Marleys

Everyday Jacob Marleys

Every year around this time I reread Dickens’ A Christmas Carol. I also watch it on TV. It doesn’t matter if it is Alastair Moore, George C Scott, Patrick Stewart or Jim Carrey playing the role of Scrooge, I just can’t get enough of this tale....
Giving Unconventional Thanks

Giving Unconventional Thanks

Thanksgiving is a day where many of us pause and reflect on the things we are most thankful for.  Ordinarily, I would tell you that I thankful for my wife Nicole and all she does for me. I would tell you that I am thankful for the health of my children, the wonderful...
A Little Perspective

A Little Perspective

Every now and then we have an experience that seem to put things into perspective. As I was packing for a trip this week I was complaining to my wife about how much I did not want to go away. I was going to miss my first Halloween since the kids were born and I was a...
What I learned from middle school

What I learned from middle school

Tonight my kids went to their first middle school dance. This had me remembering my first middle school dance – a dance I would like to forget. I had a big crush on a girl in my class. Somehow I got the nerve to call her house and ask if she would consider going...
I met a jerk last night

I met a jerk last night

Last night my wife asked me to meet her out for a date night.  The plan was for me to meet her at the restaurant as I was taking the train directly to New Canaan from New York.  Somehow our signals got crossed; I mentioned that my train would get me in around 6:40 and...
Focus Michael-san

Focus Michael-san

I was reminded of an important lesson today, but first a quick story. The other night during a family dinner we were all gathered around the table talking about our dogs. Yes, this is what you have to look forward to when you are a grown up living in suburbia.  I...
Mom’s 80th

Mom’s 80th

Today, my mother turns 80 years old. Exactly 39 years ago, she received a birthday present she would never forget; she gave birth to me and my twin brother Jimmy.  The doctor told her that she was having a large baby girl. My my where they surprised when she came home...
Making Optimism Contagious

Making Optimism Contagious

Honored to have my latest piece published by The Stamford Advocate. http://www.stamfordadvocate.com/opinion/article/Carlon-Making-optimism-contagious-4670795.php We have a member of our family who, while loved and adored by many people, is wrestling with some serious...